Selecting just the right music for a funeral or celebration of life service can be challenging, especially when emotions are running high. Favorite songs that you’ve sung with your loved one for years may escape you, while popular classics may feel jarring or off-putting to the type of service that has been selected. Fortunately, there are some funeral songs that stand the test of time, and are suitable for any type of service that you are planning.
Just as there is no rule book detailing the “right” thing to say to someone at a funeral, it can be difficult to know what you should or should not bring to a funeral. Funerals are a time for quiet reflection, bonding with loved ones and remembering a life well-lived — not necessarily the right venue for loud electronics or other noisy devices. These general rules of funeral etiquette will allow you to be confident in your choices for what to bring (or leave at home) when you’re visiting a funeral home.
When you lose a loved one or close friend, emotions of all kinds are close to the surface. Grief is generally the foremost, but you may also be feeling sadness, desolation, futility . . . and perhaps even the tiniest bit of relief if your loved one had been suffering for some time before their passing. All of these emotions are perfectly normal and should be expected, but what happens when strong emotions bubble up during the funeral service itself?
No one wants to consider what happens after we pass from this life, but there are inevitably details that will fall upon family members who are left behind — and who may be ill-equipped to handle them in their delicate emotional state. While it can be challenging to consider our own mortality, taking the time to pre-plan your funeral allows your loved ones the time to connect with each other during what will certainly be a difficult time. Whether there are specifics that you want to ensure are included in your celebration of life, or you simply want to spare your family from having to take action, pre-planning your funeral is painless when you work with friendly professionals.
When a loved one passes, many people believe that there is only one type of funeral service available. Typically, it’s whatever service is proscribed by their culture or religion. This may be the only type of service they’ve attended in the past.
The death of a loved one can be difficult – especially if you’re the one tasked with making funeral arrangements. If you’ve never been responsible for making post-death arrangements, you may be wondering where to start. As with any important event, there are decisions that need to be made. This is where your funeral home comes in. Mountain View Funeral Home can assist with many of the important decisions and essential duties of planning your loved one’s ceremony and final resting place.
If you’re unsure what to expect at a funeral, you’re not alone. An estimated 2.4 million funerals take place in America every year. Yet, many guests don’t understand the intricacies of planning, or attending, a funeral service.
It’s always difficult to lose a friend or family member. The grieving process looks different for every person and every loss. Sometimes, it involves long periods spent crying, or reminiscing about the good times you spent with your loved one. Other times, mourners appear stoic and steady – perhaps they want to stay strong for their families, or simply can’t deal with the loss at this moment.
Dark-colored funeral attire dates back at least as far as the 8th Century A.D., when ancient Romans wore the toga pulla – a grey, brown or black garment made of dark wool – during mourning periods. While plain black clothing remains traditional for funerals in most Western cultures, the spectrum of color has expanded. Here are a few wardrobe options that are perfectly appropriate for modern services.
Following the loss of a loved one, a family member is typically tasked with arranging funeral services. At Mountain View Funeral Home and Cemetery, we understand that choosing a funeral home is a very personal decision. Funerals provide relatives and friends an...